Sex, Lies and the Internet – An Online Dating Survival Guide
In order to find Mr. Right you need to
be able to recognize and avoid Mr. Wrong.
| “Screen the dogs from entering into your life.” - KIIS FM, Los Angeles |
“Dedicated to outing the bad apples.” - New York Times |
“…Offers women the Holy Grail of man-examination: a chance to hear from his exes.” - Charlotte Observer |
“…reviews your potential mate like Zagats critiques a restaurant.” - Esquire Magazine |
| “Need to know if he is a bad egg? WomanSavers.com may know.” - Wall Street Journal
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| “I have witnessed many cases of single mothers who were targeted by pedophiles to get access to her children. Every single mother should read this book.” Janene Sakahara Case Worker Division of Child and Family Services |
As a psychotherapist, I have seen the painful consequences of getting tangled up with the wrong man. Stephany’s “Red Flags” help women identify a potential cheater or abuser before it’s too late.” Sandra Brown Psychotherapist & Author of “How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved” |
“Stephany Alexander’s date screening tips are the best I have found for avoiding dangerous relationships.” WomanSavers.com Volunteer Physician Advisor “Dr. WomanSaver,” Louisiana |
“This book would have saved me one failed marriage and years of pain in an abusive relationship.” Carol McKibben Abuse Survivor & Author of “Riding Through It.”
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“The free resources in this book such as the background checking are worth a thousand times the price.” Vicky Talmage Health & Lifestyle Educator |
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Resident Volunteer Physician for WomanSavers.com
Did you know…
1 out of every 4 “Single & Available” men
on dating websites is actually married?
Source: MSNBC Survey
on dating websites is actually married?
Source: MSNBC Survey
WARNING!
to dangerous men who target, stalk, and abuse unsuspecting women,
especially women who are hopeful, and emotionally vulnerable.
* 57% of all rapes happen on dates. - Koss Study (1990)
…and how to see through their scams.
If you are using or thinking of using dating websites
to place personals ads to meet new people…

Read this Book Before You Fall Victim to an Internet Dating Scam, or Worse!
Who am I?
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I am one of the Internet’s leading relationship, infidelity and online dating experts. I am also a woman like you, who used the internet to look for Mr. Right… but in the process, I was scammed not just once, but multiple times by men who lie, cheat, abuse women and get away with it by hiding behind false identities and phony online dating profiles. Eventually I learned the secrets of how to identify Mr. Wrong on my way to finding Mr. Right, and more importantly how to avoid the abusers, scammers, cheaters and dangerous men who prey on single women in online dating websites. I learned why I found myself attracted over and over again to Mr. Wrong and how to recognize the RED FLAGS to avoid the cycle of abuse. To help women avoid these dangers, I started a website where women can warn other women about the men to avoid. This eventually became one of the top women’s websites on the Internet where tens of thousands of women come to share their stories, to heal, and to warn other women before it’s too late. |
BAD DATES…OR WORSE!
And it’s not just about “bad dates.” There are very dangerous men out there who scam, abuse, exploit, and steal from the very unsuspecting women they have conned into gaining their trust.
My website rates over tens of thousands of the worst men to avoid worldwide…
* Players
* Pedophiles
* Serial Bigamists
* Sexploiters
* Rapists
* Men who knowingly spread STDs
* Even convicted felons with multiple aliases who prey on single women.
…and they all may seem like the man of your dreams
at first.
From these thousands of heart-breaking true-life stories, and my own dating disasters, including lessons learned overcoming my own abuse, I have compiled the most horrifying stories and exposed the dangerous scams and techniques used by cheating and abusive men. I have also written hundreds of articles and advice columns on how to expose a cheater, avoid abusive men and how to heal from abuse.
SHOULD I AVOID THE INTERNET?
Don’t get me wrong, the Internet itself isn’t the problem. In fact, I believe it can be one of the fastest and very best way to expand your search and improve your chances of finding Mr. Right… if used correctly.
Discover the powerful secrets that will dramatically increase your chances of avoiding bad guys and finding a good one!
* Find out the unmistakable signs that he’s straying
* Top 7 sneaky tricks on how to catch a cheater red-handed
* Top 8 relationship deal breakers
* Find out how to identify and avoid the 5 MOST dangerous types of men
* Top 11 signs you are being abused and used
* Quickest ways to get over him and move on
* How to leave an abusive relationship
* Top 10 places to meet Mr. Right
* Secrets to writing an irresistible online profile
* Proven techniques to screen your online date
* How to do a free background check on your potential date
* How to ace a first date
DO YOU SEEM TO BE ATTRACTED
TO THE WRONG MAN, OVER AND OVER AGAIN?
I’ll show you…
* Why we keep going back to Mr. Wrong and
* How to break the cycle
* How to recognize and avoid the most dangerous types of men
ARE YOU IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO?
If you answered YES, then reading this book may change your life.
| “Women remain in abusive relationships, because they don’t know a way out, this book shows them a way out!” - Stephany Alexander, Dating & Relationship Expert, Best-selling Author |
HEALING AND HOPE
Now that you know where to go to find out the simple proven secrets to recognize and avoid Mr. Wrong, it’s time to reveal the secrets of how to find Mr. Right.
IS THERE STILL HOPE FOR FINDING MR. RIGHT?

Searching for Mr. Right
The answer is YES! After all of this, I was lucky enough to find Mr. Right for myself on the Internet and you can too!
Does it seem like Mr. Right just doesn’t exist? One of the keys is your online profile. It may be that hundreds of Mr. Right’s have already passed you by because you didn’t know the simple proven secrets for writing a profile that attracts the kind of man you have been looking for.
In this book you will also discover…
- How to do a background check to see if your new date has a “history” of bad relationships
- How to identify online dating Red Flags
- How to see through phony profiles and SCREEN scammers
- How to write a powerful profile that will attract the man of your dreams
WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

Get the book now and get started,
before Mr. Right passes you by!
Finding Mr. Right can be easy as a “walk in the park.”
Knowing these secrets is the key and is just a click away. I can share these life-saving secrets with you. There is no other online dating book anywhere that shows you how to avoid Mr. Wrong and find Mr. Right using these secret and proven techniques combined with access to free resources online and a worldwide “black list” of the worst men to avoid! |
SINGLE MOTHERS BEWARE!
If you are a single mother and have turned to the internet to meet new people, consider this…
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82% of all child sex abusers were involved in a relationship with the mother or close relative. U.S. Department of Justice |
In order to find Mr. Right
you need to be able to recognize
and avoid Mr. Wrong!
Since the Internet was first used for dating, I’ve read thousands of stories of women getting scammed and abused by men and I want it to stop! I’ve put together the best tips available anywhere to help you find the great guy you were meant to be with and avoid being scammed, used and abused by men” in my book “S#x Lies & the Internet.
IS HE CHEATING ON YOU?
You can hire a costly private detective or simply buy this book!
| If your husband or boyfriend is spending too much time on the Internet and your relationship is suffering, he may be one of the 1 in 4 men cheating on dating websites. Believe me, millions of women have had to learn this the hard way… and that the Internet is full of S*x, Lies and Infidelity. |
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That’s why I wrote a guidebook on Internet dating specifically for women called S#X, LIES AND THE INTERNET However, if you know the secrets of how to protect yourself from dangerous men, the Internet can be your key to finding Mr. Right. But if you don’t, it may lead to pain, disappointment, even abuse or worse. |
“I will share with you the Life-Saving Secrets you MUST know to…
avoid being scammed, abused and used by men
and how to heal from an abusive relationship.

![]() Online Dating Expert Stephany Alexander About the Author Nicknamed “Little Miss WomanSaver” by her fans, Stephany Alexander is a relationship, infidelity and online dating expert and founder of WomanSavers.com Free Date Screening Service, a revolutionary woman-to-woman social networking system with thousands of men’s names & descriptions entered to promote safer dating worldwide. WomanSavers is home of the world’s largest database rating men’s relationship history. This popular website lets women warn other women about alleged abusive and cheating men before it’s too late. It provides a woman-to-woman character reference on men, relationship articles, advice and support for abused women. WomanSavers is ranked in the top 1 percent most popular women’s websites. Ms. Alexander’s website has spawned a global network of over 200 WomanSaver’s representatives who volunteer their time and energy to support other women. Ms. Alexander gives street-smart advice that women call “life saving.” She has been called America’s most straight-shooting dating and relationship expert. She is the best-selling author of the book entitled “S#x, Lies and the Internet,” as well as the author of “The Cheat Sheet” infidelity book, available on Amazon.com, and countless articles on relationships, abuse and infidelity. Ms. Alexander’s popularity comes from her straight-forward way of handling difficult, hard-core topics with sensitivity and humor, helping women cope and rebuild their self-esteem. Over a decade of experience make her both inspiring and accessible. As a relationship expert, Ms. Alexander has shown celebrities like Kim Kardashian, Comedian Elayne Boosler and former First Lady Maria Shriver how to use the internet to screen people to protect themselves, their families and what they value. She is considered one of the world’s foremost authorities on dating and relationships and has polled 600,000+ women on relationship issues. Ms. Alexander has counseled thousands of men and women worldwide, traveling to over 39 countries. Her creativity extends beyond the written word having developed over a dozen women’s online cartoon comedies, a claymation and multiple online games for women. She has been the exclusive dating expert for Idea Marketers, a relationship expert for SelfGrowth.com and a featured speaker for Women for Hire and Speaker Services. Ms. Alexander was a speaker at i-Date, the world’s largest social networking conference. She speaks, reads and writes fluent German. In 2008, Ms. Alexander was awarded a Lifetime Achievement Award for Women’s Abuse Prevention, awarded “Woman of the Month” by the Femme Network and spotlighted by Women’s Business Magazine as a woman to watch in the future. She is a co-founder of SWWAN, the (Single Working Women’s Affiliate). Ms. Alexander is the founder of a 501C-3 Non-Profit Charity that supports and works with various organizations to help educate and prevent abuse against women, children and animals. The Foundation for Abuse Prevention focuses on helping women, children and animals who have been devastated by abuse and educates the public on how to prevent and recover from abusive situations. The Foundation also works to eliminate emotional, physical and psychological abuse within the family unit to promote healthy and happy relationships. The Foundation believes that every woman, child and animal has the right to live free of violence and that information and education can play a key role in prevention and recovery. Frequently called on by the media as one of the nation’s leading authorities on relationships and dating, Ms. Alexander has been featured on: the Mike & Juliet Show (repeat dating expert), E!, CBS Early Show, FOX Nationwide News, Fox Business, Sirius-XM, Playboy Radio, KROQ, KIIS-FM and in Esquire Magazine, “O” Oprah Magazine, USA Today, Wall Street Journal, the New York Times, Chicago Tribune, National Enquirer, Glamour, Women’s Business Magazine, AP and countless radio shows. Ms. Alexander holds multiple degrees in Communications & German. She enjoys scuba diving, snow skiing, tennis, yoga and spending time with her dogs, cats and her own “Mr. Right” who she met using her own date screening techniques.
A letter from Stephany: Dear Ladies, Getting involved with the wrong man not only wastes your time, it can destroy your life. Sadly, millions of women jump from Mr. Wrong to Mr. Wrong without understanding why. I used to be one of these women. Like many of you, I too, have been abused, cheated on and lied to. I soon realized most other women had experienced the same thing or knew someone who did. That’s why I decided to dedicate years of my life to helping other women break out of the cycle of abuse. This book will revolutionize the way women date. Women will now be able to make BETTER, SAFER and MORE INFORMED decisions regarding the men in their lives. I hope this book will have a tremendous positive effect on you and on future generations of women. I dedicate this book to you and the future man of your dreams. All my love,
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